Life as a Bober: November 2009

Today, Cade and I are spending the day inside and missing a trip to MOA and Underwater World because Cade has a cold. We were suppose to meet some friends from ECFE but I decided it's not worth it to bring a sick little boy out to the mall. I hate is when I see sick little kids being dragged around the mall coughing and sneezing all over. I hate it for them and I hate it for me. They would be much happier at home relaxing and I would be much happier if they weren't coughing all over me! He got his cold last Thursday night and kept me up from 12:30 until 3:30 Friday morning. Every time I tried to put him down he would start screaming. It was not a fun night and kind of a disappointment because he has been doing so well at bedtime. He generally says "bye-bye" and goes to sleep within 10 minutes without any screaming. He has become such a better sleeper since he turned 18 months. I really didn't think that the day would come when he consistently slept through the night. But, after a year and a half of sleep deprivation, he has finally figured out how to sleep.

Playing in the rocking chair is as good as the mall right?

Taking a spin in the desk chair

Enjoying the quilt from great-auntie Diana

This past weekend, Cade has his first guys weekend. He and Sean went to Chisholm and dropped me off at my parent's house. Cade and Grandpa Phil got much needed bonding time and I got a weekend to spend with my mom and friends. I forgot to send the camera with Sean so I don't have any pictures of their adventures but I do know Cade destroyed one of the window blinds, got to go out to eat twice and had chocolate milk for dinner. I think the 3 generations of Bober men had a great time. I know I had a good time. I got to sleep in on Saturday and go shopping most of the day then finished the day with dinner with some of my best friends.

The weekend after Halloween was Sean's birthday. Friday night we had scrumptious takeout from Ciao Bella. Then, on Saturday, we took Cade to the zoo. It was such a beautiful day. Cade got to ride around in the backpack that we got from Andy and Jill. I am so glad that they weren't using it because Cade loves it. Sean and I like it too because your hands are free and there's no bumping the stroller into peoples heels. We spent most of our time at the playground at the zoo. Cade loved the slide but couldn't go down by himself because he kept grabbing the sides and stopping himself. Then on Saturday night, we had ravioli as Sean requested and homemade chocolate cake. I spent my Friday evening making Sean's birthday cake. I think I must love that man. In fact, I know I do and he totally deserved that cake. I've been continually reminded why God made me wait so long for the right man. It's because Sean is the one and all the others were just stepping stones to get to him. For those of you who were at our wedding, you know that we had "Bless the Broken Road" for our processional (instrumental) and our first dance. Here's a few lyrics:

"Every long lost dream led me to where you are
Others who broke my heart, they were like northern stars
Pointing me on my way into your loving arms
This much I know is true
That God blessed the broken road
That led me straight to you"

These words perfectly describe how I feel about Sean. We have had our rough times like any other married couple but ultimately I know I will live the rest of my life loving him and have his love in return.

Loving the slide

Checking out the flora at the zoo

Cade saying hi to the bear

I love this pic. My little angel boy.

Well, I think I've been sappy enough. So, I'll tell you about my day with Phillip and Cade. On the Monday after Sean's birthday weekend, I took care of Phillip for the day. It is definitely entertaining to have two boys toddling around. Cade walked up to Phillip and patted his head, said hi and then kissed his head. How sweet is that? I wish I had had the camera out at that exact moment. I got lucky and both boys napped at the same time. So, after the morning nap, we had lunch and headed outside to take a walk. I'm sure we were quite the unusual site. I had Cade on my back, Phillip in the stroller and the 2 dogs pulling all of us along. Amazingly, both boys stayed happy the entire walk, the dogs were happy to get a walk and I was happy that all went well and I got some fresh air on a sunny day.

Phillip

Fighting over the cell phone

Saying hi to Belle

Halloween was a busy day for us. We headed to the salon for haircuts in the morning. While we were there Cade proved that he is definitely an extrovert. There was a mom and her 2 teenage daughters there and Cade needed to keep running over to talk to them. He is our little social butterfly. If he wasn't a little boy a butterfly would have been a great costume idea. Instead he was a little green monster. This is also fitting because he is in the stage of hitting and biting his parents. Usually he is so laid back but he also gets frustrated and his anger is unleashed as physical punishment for us. One one hand I hate to see him frustrated but I also can't let him think it's ok to hit me. We have been giving him 30sec-1 min timeouts for almost 2 weeks now and he still hits us. Eventually we're hoping it will stop since there's not much else we can do at this age.

After the salon we headed home to get Cade's costume on and went to MOA to check out the largest indoor trick-or-treating event. We were hoping that Andy, Jill and Phillip could've joined us but Phillip was still taking his afternoon nap while we were having dinner at the mall.

"Mom, I'm too sure about this costume"